Letter To A Weary Soul: Let Go of The Expectations. Get Out of The Way!
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- Oct 27, 2025
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October 15, 2025
“I’m having you deal with it now, so you don’t deal with it later, beloved. I need you to cooperate with Me and get out of the way.
Subdue that miserable flesh that wants to rise up and is at enmity with My Spirit and the move of My Spirit. You have no idea what I am doing, what chains are being broken, and what strongholds are being set loose.
With every argument, every attack, every complaint beloved you make, the strongholds in his heart and mind even stronger. It gives life to the demons you are praying that he would be delivered from.
I told you, beloved, every negative word, curse, or thoughts from your heart empowers Satan. It's become a life force for him. You don’t have to say these words out loud, your actions, your mood emanates and energy, a negative one that the demons feed off, and they know their assignment, their fiery darts are working. No longer allow her, (and He means Jezebel), to mess with your mind concerning your husband. That was the leading of My spirit to write down these expectations I am asking you to let go of once and for all.
If you trust Me, give Me until the end of the year, you will witness a miracle. I need you to see this through, and I am praying for you now that you do. Let Me tell you what you can expect and what you can hope for.
He will have the control back because I will be in control now of his spirit and of his soul, as he will be surrendered to Me and a captive that is set free. I would be lying if I told you to expect a clean slate, beloved. Just know that any fall will shatter and shake him tremendously, drawing him no longer further away from Me and into his sin but closer to Me. And closer to you because you have prayed, stayed, and loved him through. You will conquer this together. 2026 will be a year of great revelation, equipping, and understanding for your husband concerning spiritual things and a year of self-discovery. He will know himself and fully understand how Satan works against his life. No longer will he be blind or ignorant to it. I will make it clear through various means. I am awakening his conscience even now and will open his mind again to the dreams and visions he once had before that was stolen from him. He is a prophet, and I will make my words and ways very clear to him so will I make the works of Satan even clearer. Forewarning him of certain dangers and temptations, traps, and landmines set up for him. Any mistake that is done will prove to be a great lesson for him, and I will work it all out to do him much Good. He will be more perceptive to my inspirations and desires, even with you and his family. He will grow to be more attentive, my thoughtful and more loving.
So, do not worry what you are seeing now or experiencing. He is but a shell of what he truly is created to be. You’re dealing with a soul who is fragmented and in prison. So, what do you expect, beloved? Stop fighting him and making the chains which they have yoked him with even tighter. You are called to set him free, and that is by first your prayer and then your love. Sincere sacrificial love. I need that from you, beloved, now more than ever. There is no time to go back and forth, doubt or walk in unbelief concerning My words or promise to you, and go on oppressed, heavy, and full of fear and despair. It doesn’t get you anywhere but rather makes matters much worse, and it's so easy for Satan and his minions to paint you a bleak and dark picture. Things will change, and things are changing if you trust Me. So let go.
Do not expect him to call during the day to see how you're doing.
Do not expect him to be there for you and your children.
Do not expect him to help around the house or pick up after himself.
Do not expect him to be honest.
Do not expect him to be faithful.
Do not expect him to be thoughtful or think of you concerning your needs.
Do not expect him to plan a date and take you out.
Do not expect him to make quality time a priority.
Do not expect him to spend time with you and the children on the weekends.
Do not expect him to break up the relationship he has.
Do not expect him to not give money out to others financially.
Do not expect him to compliment you or post you.
Do not expect him to plan anything for your birthdays or holidays.
Do not expect him to listen to you or be interested in your long conversations.
Do not expect him to put his family first or be concerned with building memories.
Do not expect him to take pictures together with the family.
Do not expect him to make time to spend with you.
Do not expect all of these things now. Expect them the point of breakthrough, all of these things will change. Some will be quicker than others, and others will be a gradual process. What you do is let go of now, you will have back at a greater measure as the year starts, because he will be a new man if you would trust Me and pray. So please believe, will you cooperate with Me put this flesh to death? No more complaining, murmuring, attacking, or conversations. I want you to be prayerful, vigilant, and watchful because your adversary continues to lurk around seeing a way of entrance. I rather want you expectant, full of praise and gratitude by the smallest of victories and entrusting all to My Mother. We will celebrate, you will see!”
That was the end of Jesus' message.
Well, family, the Lord has made it clear that many of us are going through various trials. I have received quite a few messages from different souls who are really struggling in their marriage or wanting to give up. That is how I knew the assignment on marriages have been released when we are all hit at once in the same area. One of the souls I counselled was really struggling to trust the Lord in this season. She had been married for several years, had prayed, and was still going through the same things, and wanted to give up.
When I was getting married, I remembered one of the counsels I received from a Holy Spirit-filled women who had been married for 30 years was to “let go of all expectations”. I thought at that time sure it was easy to do, but it’s one of the hardest things when you are married to not have expectations anymore on your spouse, but rather you just love them. That is what Christ does to us, but so hard to do when you are in the fire, weary and hurting.
So, I had to counsel this soul with the same advice I was given and still struggling with in my own marriage. However, this soul is joining us in the 70-day prayer to destroy Jezebels altar and was looking for a word from the Lord concerning what her breakthrough would look like, so I sought the Lord on her behalf, and Jesus gave this message.
May it be a blessing to all who may be struggling in their marriage and may be able to relate to some of the things Jesus mentioned. May we all continue to keep marriages in your prayer and let’s believe the Lord for amazing testimonies at the end of the year as He promised!
God bless you family until the next message.
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