Wounds of Rejection

April 5, 2025

A Message to You from Brother Aderson

Hello family, the Lord led me to share with you two situations in my life that were caused by the spirit of rejection and how much it prevented me from having a family.

I will describe two people I met and how the spirit of rejection affected our relationships. The names mentioned here are not real names. One will be called Helen and the other Gift.

I met Helen in 2016, she was my colleague from work. After two or three months, we started dating. We were so in love that after two months, we were talking about our future together and so on. During this time, I was also in serious trials, I was under witchcraft attacks.

In the third month of dating, Helen had a dream, and in this dream, the enemy presented himself as a divine being with a sweet voice (as she told me) and told her that in two weeks, she would feel nothing for me. He gave her so many reasons for this, and guess what happened. After a month, we broke up. She told me that everything she once felt for me was gone and that she saw me as a dear brother.

I was devastated because I still liked her, and the breakup, without a plausible explanation, almost drove me crazy because I wanted answers, and I could not get them.

As time passed, her feelings for me began to change for the worse. She accused me of being the cause of the breakup, and after some time, Helen began to despise me. She would walk past me without saying hello. I became not only a stranger, but also her enemy. And because we were colleagues, I was constantly ignored by her.

When I was in the middle of other colleagues, she would come and greet all the other people with a kiss or a hug and ignore me. It was painful, but I endured with the help of the Blessed Mother.

Two years later, I met Gift. Gift was a beautiful girl in my church. Unknown to me, Gift had problems with rejection. She was rejected by her father and had a difficult relationship with her mother. Gift did not believe in unconditional love; she thought only Jesus could love that way.

We became friends, and over time, I began to have feelings for her. I could not concentrate during prayer time; my mind was always on her, so I thought I was falling in love with her.

Since this feeling was intense, one day I told Gift that I was into her, and guess what, she ran away from me and stopped talking to me for almost six months. Again, I was confused, I did not understand her reaction.

A few days later, I noticed that the intense feeling I had for her was gone, and I was able to concentrate during my prayer time. The only thing that occurred to me was that the enemy was the source of those intense feelings, because he can play with our emotions.

After six months, we resumed our friendship. I liked her, but I was not in love with her as I thought before. The friendship went well, we saw each other in church and other places.

One day, we went out for pizza, and on the way, my car broke down near her house. That was the last time we spoke because after that, she stopped answering or returning my phone calls.

The same month or year, during Ash Wednesday, I tried to talk to her to find out what was going on. She ignored me in front of her friends, and I felt so humiliated that I could not leave the place where I was. That was one of the hardest days of my life. She walked by me, looked at me, and pretended not to know me. All I could do was to stand there and ask God for help because the embarrassment was too much.

God saved me by sending one of my friends to talk to me. After we talked, I gained strength and was able to leave the place where I was stuck and go home. At that moment, I had a glimpse of how people feel when they are humiliated.

To this day, we have not spoken again. We see each other in church, but we do not speak. A friend we had in common once told me that when she hears my name, she becomes aggressive as if I had done something wrong to her.

I would like to point out that the enemy used a prophet to give me a false prophecy about Gift, and in a vision, he showed Gift to one of my family members and made me believe that she could be the one.

In both cases, the spirit of rejection was at work, and one of his goals was to make me give up on love. Unfortunately for him, God used these two situations to teach me about unconditional love. In both situations, I never treated them badly, I endured it all with love, and never spoke badly about them.

I asked Jesus to help me forgive them, and He did. You see, both Helen and Gift had a difficult relationship with their parents. It is not all their fault, and I came to understand that later.

God was merciful to me, He never allowed me to close my heart. I tried to give up on love and agreed with the idea that it would be better for me to remain single, but fortunately, my soul longed for its mate. It was painful to be rejected by people you like or care about, especially when you have done nothing to deserve it.

I had many unanswered questions; I was angry with God and felt rejected by Him. But I could not give up on God, I knew that He was God and only wanted good for me. I wrestled with Him, one moment I would be angry, the next moment I would repent and praise Him. Deep inside, I knew that I could not blame Him for anything, and if anything happened, it was only my fault.

Family, if you have experienced rejection, do not deceive yourself into thinking that you are healed. If you have not allowed God to heal you. You may have forgiven them, but the wounds from it only God can heal.

Spend time with Him and allow Him to restore your souls from every humiliation, rejection, and pain.

See you, family, until the next Message.

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